I'm having trouble telling, because
1. this specimen isn't an adult, but a subadult
2. the pectines are small and thin
3. the male keeps trying to mate with "him/her" by putting his claws around him/her, and getting near a rock, even though this one isnt an adult (subadult, yellow milky stinger)
edit: sorry about the pics, i was shown by many pics a female's will look like a fly head and the males looks like this "female".